Go figure...
I have been trying to get ahold of Dusty for over a week now...and guess what? He hasn't answered his phone and he (of course) hasn't returned any of my messages. Grrrrrr.... If he actually picks up the boys tonight I am finally ready to play some hard ball. I am going to tell him that his behavior is going to stop. Truly I could hold him in contempt of court right now with all he has done (and not done) over the past year, but I feel like I need to tell him what is going to happen before I go through with it. I am definitely ready to take him to court if I need to though. I am so tired of never knowing whether he will pick up the boys and it is extremely hard for the boys too. They need him to be there for them consistently.
Luckily I was smart enough to get some clauses in the divorce decree that will aid me in holding him in contempt. He is supposed to call me by Wednesday if he can't pick up the kids (he rarely gives me notice...and if he does it is usually Friday morning) so he has broken that ruling countless times. PLUS, he is supposed to have the boys for three weeks in the summer (which he had them... ZERO times). My guess is that he won't have them much over the winter holidays either...but who knows. He won't return my calls, so I am in the dark.
So tonight I will pack the boys (just in case) and have them fed (again...just in case) but we will probably watch a movie together. No news is usually NOT good news with Dusty...but he has surprised me before...


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